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About
Barb Speaking
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May
I help you find what
you're
looking for?
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What most
homeschoolers mean when they ask "Do you speak?" is
whether or not I speak at conventions. Yes, I do,
and if that's what you're interested in, my "terms"
are right here on this page. (Skip on down to
"Speaker Fee" right below this pink box.)
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If what you are
actually interested in is bringing me to your town to speak at
my own one or
two-day conference, click here to go to my page on how I
work that.
If you're wanting me to come and speak at
your homeschool support group, click
here.
If you're wanting me to come and speak at
your homeschool convention, scroll down this page to that
info.
If you're
looking for my current Speaking Schedule, click here.
(Note: I am not doing
a lot of speaking right now. If I do one a month for half
the months in a year, that is all "my plate" can handle. In fact, I do not pursue
speaking engagements at all. I consider all invitations,
but this is not the season of my life for a lot of speaking, so
don't be surprised at how few speaking engagements there are!)
Or
if you're looking for a brief bio
on me, go about 3/4 of the way down this page.
(Well, it's SORT of brief!)
First let me define "convention" and "conference" for you ~ how *I* define
these two words... :-)
A convention is a state or area event, where there's a curriculum fair and
several speakers, with several workshops taking place at the same time in
each "workshop block." So one workshop block might have anywhere from four
to ten workshops. ...
A conference is what I call *my* seminar events, and these are focused
events, with just one speaker the whooooole time: me, in particular. :-)
It's all one cohesive event, and they attend all 9 of it. They therefore
get the whoooole message; the "heart 'n' soul" of it, and the "art and
science" of it.
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About Barb Speaking
at a Homeschool Convention:
SPEAKER FEE
I ask a $500 honorarium, no matter how many workshops I present.
If it is your custom to pay a larger honorarium to your speakers, and you are
able to afford it, I have no
problem receiving whatever you might deem acceptable.
On the other hand, if you cannot afford that much, let's discuss it!
My heart is to share with homeschoolers the message of freedom in
following Him for how to truly educate the children He has put in our
care, but this is at a great price for myself and family. My time
away from our home and business needs to be best spent, and also, it cannot *cost* us beyond what we
are already paying in time to do this. Therefore, I do have some
"requirements":
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TO BE ABLE TO SPEAK at
most if not (preferably) all of your workshop blocks, a
minimum of 4 times
each day (assuming you have that many workshop blocks); preferably
5 or 6. In essence, I want to be speaking the whole time I am
there, other than a couple of breaks for lunch and a short rest. This is because it is a
poor and inefficient use of time for me to sit at
my booth and explain my message to one or two people at a time when
I could be presenting it to ~ and connecting with ~ a large group at
once.
~ FREE BOOTH ~ at the curriculum fair. We need two 8-foot long
tables or three 6-foot tables. (We make an "L" out of
the two tables. Or we could make a "U" out of the 3
six-footers.)
~ TRANSPORTATION ~ We need for you to get us there
and back home. You would pay for mileage or fly us (myself and one
assistant) there and
back. (By the way, we do
not consider this "pay," but just, well, getting me there and
back.
I say this because of those (few) people who have actually considered
airfare to be "pay"! Of course it actually IS "pay" ~ to
the airline company! We also need a shuttle to and from the
airport paid for; or, even better, if you can afford it, a rental car.)
~ LODGING ~
We can handle meals
ourselves, but we do need lodging at a motel to be provided. If your conference location is adjacent to a
hotel, we would ask that we be lodged in that hotel so that I
can have a "quiet place of escape" during the conference to go and
re-group, pray, and gather my thoughts for my *next* workshops.
This is especially important if the conference does not have a
designated speakers room.
~ TO HAVE
INPUT ON WHICH WORKSHOPS I DO ~
Because my message is multi-faceted, I need to work with you on
which ones to present at your convention. I realize that YOU
are the ones with the vision for your event, but on my end, it's
important that I come to present the *heart* of my message, and
not just the "externals." So we can talk (or email) about
this, and I'll explain it further.
~ TO HAVE
INPUT ON THE TIMES I SPEAK AT
~ Not
control over it;
I'd just like to be able to work with you. At one
convention, my last two workshops ~ on the how-to's of high
school which are at the heart of my high school message ~ were scheduled
at the same time as a Ladies' Tea *and* the preparation time for their
Homeschool Graduation Ceremony. First, I was concerned and
disappointed that these workshops were the
last two workshops of the convention, when convention attendees are
exhausted, and many do not even stay to the end. Plus the fact that these
two workshops are my most intense ~ requiring an alert mind. There's no way the planners could have known that
without discussing it with me, but had we talked long before the
convention, it could have been planned differently. I do realize that someone has to be last,
but what I
had a hard time understanding was why a Ladies' Tea and prep for
graduation would be scheduled
during my ~ or any ~ workshops. The room they put my workshop in could have
accommodated 300, yet there were no more than 50. And those two are
usually my
most-attended workshop topics.
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Here are
the
specifics on all the points
mentioned above:
TRANSPORTATION:
Depending on how far away from me you are, this would be either:
~ CAR: We
need mileage (35 cents per mile) or airfare
for myself and my husband, including transportation to and from the
airport.
~ AIR:
If we fly, we need to make the arrangements for the
flights, and you reimburse us. (There are too many scheduling
consideration on our end for it to be anything but migraine-producing
for you to have this burden.)
Either way,
I would need to arrive there the day before
the seminar, set up the room and table that evening, and stay the night before to be ready to go in the morning.
... If driving, we'd possibly return home in the evening, after the
conference is over, depending on
how far away we are ~ so we're looking at one or two nights lodging.
MEALS
& LODGING:
We eat very inexpensively and also enjoy home-made food and sack
lunches. We are fine with a hotel ~ which doesn't have to be
expensive. I need to be free to prepare mentally, emotionally and
spiritually for my upcoming workshops. We have found that staying in a
home does not work for a couple of reasons. For one, after a
day of teaching, I need to "crash" (as in "drop dead") in privacy and quiet.
Also, almost always when staying at homes, I found myself having to talk late into the evening and, in essence, give my hostess a private seminar/consultation when
already running on "empty"
~ totally wiped out.
Even just regular conversation is overwhelming at that point. It would be
fun in a different situation, but
it almost assuredly results in a migraine for the next couple of days... even
more time away from my family and business.
BOOK TABLE:
We need one 8-foot long table ~ or two 6-foot tables ~ for displaying our
books. My husband or a friend always comes with me, so the only time we would need a volunteer to "man"
("woman") our table while I am speaking is if Dave and I are
both speaking at the same time, or if one of us needs to take a quick
break. (And we are quite happy to compensate the helper for their
time.)
MY / OUR
WORKSHOPS:
Click here
to see the specific workshop titles I offer. (Here is a list of Barb Shelton's Past Speaking Engagements
if you'd like to see that.)
HANDOUTS:
We have two
options for how we handle handouts:
A)
I send you my
originals; you copy and staple
the handouts
for the number of attendees you have coming. You pay for these.
B) You let me know how many handouts will be needed for each of my
workshops, I will do all the copying, and you reimburse me for
costs. (If you have a limit in quantity or price/page, please let me know.
I
will still have the same number to copy as I can't re-do them for each
workshop I do, but at least I'll know how much of it I'll be getting
reimbursed for.)
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BRIEF BIO ON BARB:
For your convenience,
here is as brief a bio on me as I have. You are welcome to shorten
it if you need to.
| Barb Shelton is a 23-year homeschooler* who inadvertently became a "homeschool pioneer" without ever intending to do so. Her speaking and writing (she has written 8 books for homeschoolers) are on topics of vital interest to burning-out as well as brand new and wanna-be homeschoolers. With vulnerability, humor, and God's Word,
Barb has helped hundreds of parents recover from and avoid the pitfalls of listening to the loud and numerous voices of the world, inspiring them to hear the voice of the Lord for their own unique children.
Her heart is to refresh and equip the brethren (and "sisteren") and help them grasp God's vision for the education ~ the *true* education ~ of their children.
*
Not 23 years old; been homeschooling
for 23 years!
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