About Barb Speaking

 

 

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What most homeschoolers mean when they ask "Do you speak?" is whether or not I speak at conventions.  Yes, I do, and if that's what you're interested in, my "terms" are right here on this page. (Skip on down to "Speaker Fee" right below this pink box.)

 

   

 If what you are actually interested in is bringing me to your town to speak at my own one or two-day conference, click here to go to my page on how I work that. 

   

If you're wanting me to come and speak at your homeschool support group, click here.

   

If you're wanting me to come and speak at your homeschool convention, scroll down this page to that info.

  

If you're looking for my current Speaking Schedule, click here.  (Note: I am not doing a lot of speaking right now.  If I do one a month for half the months in a year, that is all "my plate" can handle.  In fact, I do not pursue speaking engagements at all.  I consider all invitations, but this is not the season of my life for a lot of speaking, so don't be surprised at how few speaking engagements there are!)

   

Or if you're looking for a brief bio on me, go about 3/4 of the way down this page.    (Well, it's SORT of brief!)

  
First let me define "convention" and "conference" for you ~ how *I* define these two words... :-)

A convention is a state or area event, where there's a curriculum fair and several speakers, with several workshops taking place at the same time in each "workshop block." So one workshop block might have anywhere from four to ten workshops. ...

A conference is what I call *my* seminar events, and these are focused events, with just one speaker the whooooole time: me, in particular. :-) It's all one cohesive event, and they attend all 9 of it. They therefore get the whoooole message; the "heart 'n' soul" of it, and the "art and science" of it.


  

About Barb Speaking at a Homeschool Convention:


SPEAKER FEE     I ask a $500 honorarium, no matter how many workshops I present.  If it is your custom to pay a larger honorarium to your speakers, and you are able to afford it, I have no problem receiving whatever you might deem acceptable.   On the other hand, if you cannot afford that much, let's discuss it!    My heart is to share with homeschoolers the message of freedom in following Him for how to truly educate the children He has put in our care, but this is at a great price for myself and family.  My time away from our home and business needs to be best spent, and also, it cannot *cost* us beyond what we are already paying in time to do this. Therefore, I do have some "requirements":

    

  

~ TO BE ABLE TO SPEAK at most if not (preferably) all of your workshop blocks, a minimum of 4 times each day (assuming you have that many workshop blocks); preferably 5 or 6.  In essence, I want to be speaking the whole time I am there, other than a couple of breaks for lunch and a short rest.  This is because it is a poor and inefficient use of time for me to sit at my booth and explain my message to one or two people at a time when I could be presenting it to ~ and connecting with ~ a large group at once.

     

~ FREE BOOTH ~ at the curriculum fair.  We need two 8-foot long tables or three 6-foot tables.  (We make an "L" out of the two tables.  Or we could make a "U" out of the 3 six-footers.)

     

~ TRANSPORTATION ~ We need for you to get us there and back home.  You would pay for mileage or fly us (myself and one assistant) there and back.  (By the way, we do not consider this "pay," but just, well, getting me there and back.   I say this because of those (few) people who have actually considered airfare to be "pay"!  Of course it actually IS "pay" ~ to the airline company!    We also need a shuttle to and from the airport paid for; or, even better, if you can afford it, a rental car.)

     

~ LODGING ~ We can handle meals ourselves,  but we do need lodging at a motel to be provided.  If your conference location is adjacent to a hotel, we would ask that we be lodged in that hotel so that I can have a "quiet place of escape" during the conference to go and re-group, pray, and gather my thoughts for my *next* workshops.  This is especially important if the conference does not have a designated speakers room.

  

~ TO HAVE INPUT ON WHICH WORKSHOPS I DO ~ Because my message is multi-faceted, I need to work with you on which ones to present at your convention.  I realize that YOU are the ones with the vision for your event, but on my end, it's important that I come to present the *heart* of my message, and not just the "externals."  So we can talk (or email) about this, and I'll explain it further. 

  

~ TO HAVE INPUT ON THE TIMES I SPEAK AT ~ Not control over it; I'd just like to be able to work with you.  At one convention, my last two workshops ~ on the how-to's of high school which are at the heart of my high school message ~ were scheduled at the same time as a Ladies' Tea *and* the preparation time for their Homeschool Graduation Ceremony. First, I was concerned and disappointed that these workshops were the last two workshops of the convention, when convention attendees are exhausted, and many do not even stay to the end. Plus the fact that these two workshops are my most intense ~ requiring an alert mind. There's no way the planners could have known that without discussing it with me, but had we talked long before the convention, it could have been planned differently.  I do realize that someone has to be last, but what I had a hard time understanding was why a Ladies' Tea and prep for graduation would be scheduled during my ~ or any ~ workshops. The room they put my workshop in could have accommodated 300, yet there were no more than 50. And those two are usually my most-attended workshop topics.

      

   

   

Here are the

specifics on all the points

mentioned above:

      
TRANSPORTATION:  Depending on how far away from me you are, this would be either:

 

~ CAR:  We need mileage (35 cents per mile) or airfare for myself and my husband, including transportation to and from the airport. 

  

~ AIR:  If we fly, we need to make the arrangements for the flights, and you reimburse us.  (There are too many scheduling consideration on our end for it to be anything but migraine-producing for you to have this burden.)

 

Either way, I would need to arrive there the day before the seminar, set up the room and table that evening, and stay the night before to be ready to go in the morning.  ...  If driving, we'd possibly return home in the evening, after the conference is over, depending on how far away we are ~ so we're looking at one or two nights lodging.
   

   
MEALS & LODGING:
  We eat very inexpensively and also enjoy home-made food and sack lunches.  We are fine with a hotel ~ which doesn't have to be expensive.  I need to be free to prepare mentally, emotionally and spiritually for my upcoming workshops. We have found that staying in a home does not work for a couple of reasons.  For one, after a day of teaching, I need to "crash" (as in "drop dead") in privacy and quiet.  Also, almost always when staying at homes, I found myself having to talk late into the evening and, in essence, give my hostess a private seminar/consultation when already running on "empty" ~ totally wiped out. Even just regular conversation is overwhelming at that point.  It would be fun in a different situation, but it almost assuredly results in a migraine for the next couple of days... even more time away from my family and business.  

   

   

BOOK TABLE:  We need one 8-foot long table ~ or two 6-foot tables ~ for displaying our books.  My husband or a friend always comes with me, so the only time we would need a volunteer to "man" ("woman") our table while I am speaking is if Dave and I are both speaking at the same time, or if one of us needs to take a quick break.  (And we are quite happy to compensate the helper for their time.)

    
      

MY / OUR WORKSHOPS:  Click here to see the specific workshop titles I offer.  (Here is a list of Barb Shelton's Past Speaking Engagements if you'd like to see that.)

      

   
HANDOUTS: We have two options for how we handle handouts:

A)  I send you my originals; you copy and staple the handouts for the number of attendees you have coming.  You pay for these.

  

B)  You let me know how many handouts will be needed for each of my workshops, I will do all the copying, and you reimburse me for costs.  (If you have a limit in quantity or price/page, please let me know.  I will still have the same number to copy as I can't re-do them for each workshop I do, but at least I'll know how much of it I'll be getting reimbursed for.)

   

   

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BRIEF BIO ON BARB:  For your convenience, here is as brief a bio on me as I have.  You are welcome to shorten it if you need to.  

 

Barb Shelton is a 23-year homeschooler* who inadvertently became a "homeschool pioneer" without ever intending to do so. Her speaking and writing (she has written 8 books for homeschoolers) are on topics of vital interest to burning-out as well as brand new and wanna-be homeschoolers. With vulnerability, humor, and God's Word, Barb has helped hundreds of parents recover from and avoid the pitfalls of listening to the loud and numerous voices of the world, inspiring them to hear the voice of the Lord for their own unique children.  Her heart is to refresh and equip the brethren (and "sisteren") and help them grasp God's vision for the education ~ the *true* education ~ of their children. 

* Not 23 years old; been homeschooling for 23 years!  

      

   

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If, after reading all this,

and praying about it with those

who are working with you on this,

you are interested in having

me come and speak, please

email me.

   

  

Barb Shelton's Current Speaking Schedule

   

Barb Shelton's Past Speaking Engagements

  

        

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